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I am not your mystery woman, I am not your muse..I am not your soulmate, just a passionate woman looking for her own peace of mind... Heart is a lonely hunter!!! "Within us there is someone who knows everything, wills everything, does everything better than we ourselves"~I guess this is Hermen Hesse

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Under stress

Have you observed yourself as a 3rd person, when you are going thru a crisis, of any kind?

I have noticed one thing about myself
 Under a stressful condition, I become a better me..effortlessly

When a relationship breaks, while my inside is decaying, I help others with their
As if that would save my crumbling parts

I am more eloquent,I am taking charge of the situation.
Trying to run-over negativity, which is sometimes produced by external people as well

I dont give my mind a moment of rest, am exhausting myself with alternatives to come out of that situation
They might not be the best ones, yet I dont stop
I just know that by doing so, I will salvage something somewhere

Its like a constant movement might turn the events which are yet to happen

Even if they all turns out futile, I will save parts of me in the process

Some call it denial, but I guess its just another me, which surfaces
And in-spite of the heartbreak happening, I grow to love myself little more

If I were someone else, I would definitely love the person I become sometimes

7 comments:

Syed Ali Hamid said...

When one is pushed against the wall, the defense-mechanism starts working:

Apna gham le ke kahin aur na jaaya jaaye/
Ghar ki bikhri hui cheezon ko sajaya jaaye.

Was away for a week; returned today. It's nice to be back; khaaksaar ka aadaab qubool farmaen.

WomanInLove said...

Syed - Thats true, but some people break down and some people act better than usual. Dont know which is better though

qubool kiya :)

Syed Ali Hamid said...

Stoic endurance with dignity has always been considered the better option. If you cry, people laugh secretly at you, deriving sadistic pleasure; nobody cries with you, their sympathy being only for show. In any case:

Eik do roz ka sadma ho to ro lein 'Faakir'/
humko har roz ke sadmaat ne rone na diya.

pygmalion said...

wow, thats quite a try!
should do sometimes:)
loved the thought and the better you:)
stress is meant to be overcome and its nice to know that u overcome that beautifully.. cheers dear

Anonymous said...

I guess this a trait in most females...they act better under crisis, maybe coz they are stronger of the two sexes

Syed Ali Hamid said...

Nothing from you from quite sometime, not even response to the above comments? Hope everything is fine with you.

WomanInLove said...

pygmalion - Thanks dear!

Pesto Sauce - Not sure about the sexes thing, but you could be right

Syed - Thanks for checking. A lot has been happening at my end, havent read my fav blogs in a while. But I promise to do all of it this week and maybe write something on the weekend